Detox For Your Life

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   1. You Don’t Have to Stick with a Bad Decision

   Sticking with a bad decision is not a triumph of commitment. It’s a failure of courage. The quicker you are to admit you were wrong, the sooner you can start making it right.There are a number of reasons why people stick by a bad decision.Emotional investment: People often become emotionally invested in their decisions, especially if they've put a lot of time, effort, or resources into them. Admitting they made a mistake can feel like admitting failure, which can be difficult to accept.Fear of c

   Apr 28,2024 07:39
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   2. Success Amnesia

   Do you suffer from success amnesia? Success amnesia happens when someone struggles to recognize past successes and accomplishments. Success amnesia impacts your life in several ways. Some of those ways are:Lack of Confidence: When individuals suffer from success amnesia, they may lack confidence in their abilities to overcome challenges or succeed in new endeavors because they don't recognize their past achievements as evidence of their capabilities.Increased Anxiety: Without the ability to reca

   Apr 17,2024 06:24
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   3. Create Your Own Lane

   In the journey of life, it's common to encounter roadblocks, detours, and dead ends. There are moments when it feels like nothing is working out or fitting into place. It's during these times that the idea of "creating your own lane" becomes not just an option but a necessity. Creating your own lane means forging a path that aligns with your passions, strengths, and values, even when conventional routes seem inaccessible or unsuitable. It's about taking control of your destiny and refusing to be

   Mar 31,2024 08:33
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   4. I want you to stop saying this

   Stop saying, “If people say, ‘after all I’ve done for you’ that they only did for you as a transaction.”Recognize Genuine Acts of Kindness: Discern between genuine acts of kindness and manipulative behaviors disguised as favors or transactions. True acts of kindness come from a place of genuine care and concern, rather than being used as leverage.Communication is Key: Advocate for open and honest communication in relationships. Express your needs and expectations clearly, while also being recept

   Mar 17,2024 06:45
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   5. Don’t Hate on Someone Else’s Blessing

   As human beings we often look at things from our perspective and don’t as often look at things from the other person’s perspective. Someone gets the job that we applied to – we’re mad about it. Someone gets the house we wanted, we’re upset about it. Someone buys the last item that was left, we’re frustrated. Someone finds the love of their life and you’re still single, and you wonder why them and not you. You see where I’m going.It's important to cultivate a positive and supportive mindset when

   Feb 19,2024 06:37
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   6. Are You Good at Self-Discipline?

   I read in a guide to self-discipline that One of the reasons we don't have self-discipline is because we run from the hard, uncomfortable things. We would rather do the easy, comfortable, familiar things. I am a mindset coach, helping people shift the way they think so they can change the way they live. Discipline starts with our mind – how we think. Self-discipline is about learning to control yourself so you can work towards your goals, even when no one is forcing you to.Discipline is a crucia

   Feb 04,2024 11:32
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   7. Life is a Dance Between Making it Happen and Letting it Happen

   Making it happen: This part of the dance involves taking initiative, setting goals, making plans, and actively working towards achieving what you desire. It's about being proactive, making decisions, and putting in effort to shape your life in a deliberate way.Letting it happen: On the other hand, there are aspects of life that are beyond your control. This part of the dance is about being open to opportunities, embracing uncertainty, and allowing life to unfold organically. It's a recognition t

   Dec 05,2023 09:51
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   8. Death Should Not Be Your Gateway to Peace

   People often say, Rest in Peace, but we also deserve to LIVE in peace. Death should not be your gateway to peace. We only get one life. We owe it to ourselves to be happy, to have joy, to experience peace while we are living. Ask yourself the question, “Is there anything in my life disrupting my peace? If the answer is yes, ask yourself, “Why am I still dealing with this? If someone you loved was experiencing something that was disturbing their peace (job, relationship, friendship, etc.), would

   Nov 26,2023 05:53
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   9. Take a Trip to Graceland

   As you are giving yourself grace, tell yourself that you are:Doing your bestYou are not your mistakes. Everyone makes mistakesTomorrow is a new day & as long as I am breathing, there’s always an opportunity to do something different, to grow, etc.12 ways to give yourself grace:Stop trying to be perfect – allow yourself to be humanForgive yourselfChange your mindset stop the negative self-talkPractice gratitudeBe kind to yourselfLet go of the past or whatever you’re holding on toShow yourself com

   Oct 15,2023 07:40
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    10. Stop Typecasting Yourself

     A few tips to help you stop typecasting yourself:Get back in touch with yourself. Get in touch with who you are and who you want to be. Is there a disconnect between who you are and who you desire to be? Highlight the parts of you that you really like/ really enjoy. Identify the areas you aren’t too fond of. Identify your strengths and weaknesses.Don’t be afraid to take risks. EXPAND yourself. I know growth is scary. In that risk-taking, you will develop or grow parts of you that you labeled as

    Oct 09,2023 10:05
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    11. Choose Joy over Perfection

    One of the things that robs us of joy is our desire to seek perfection/be perfect. We give gifts to other people, but how often do we give gifts to ourselves? One of the best gifts you can give yourself is the gift of joy. As I always say, you are the only person you are guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with. Do more of what brings you joy. The definition of joy is a feeling of great pleasure and happiness. If you don’t already know, I want you to think about what gives you joy, what gi

    Sep 08,2023 06:24
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    12. It’s Okay to Change Course

    Whether you're considering a career shift, a new personal direction, etc., here are some tips to help you navigate the process:Self-Reflection: Before making any major changes, take time to reflect on your strengths, interests, values, and long-term goals. Understand what truly matters to you and what you want to achieve in your new direction.Set Clear Goals: Define specific and achievable goals for your new path. Having clear objectives will give you direction and motivation as you work towards

    Aug 06,2023 09:01
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    13. Give Yourself as Many Chances as You Need to Get it Right

    On your journey to giving yourself as many chances as you need to get it right:Start by letting go of the past. We spend way too much time staying stuck in the past and it paralyzes us. Prevents us from moving forward. The past failures or the things that didn’t go our way or work out for us in the past still affords us an opportunity to grow.Figure out what you do want. Piggybacking on the last one, sometimes you spend way too much time in the past that you fail to take that as an opportunity t

    Jul 17,2023 05:43
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    14. Now that I’ve seen you, I can’t unsee you

    Possible reasons why people have difficulty seeing the change in someone else:Familiarity bias: People often have preconceived notions or mental images of others based on past experiences and interactions. These preconceptions can create a cognitive bias that makes it difficult to perceive changes in someone's behavior or character.Limited perspective: If someone has limited interactions or limited exposure to the person in question, they may not have enough information to notice significant cha

    May 30,2023 06:40
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    15. Until you get clear on what you want, you will get something that kinda, sorta, almost but not quite meets it.

    I read that the average person makes about 35,000 decisions a day. In life, in your career, in your relationships (friendships and romantic relationships), etc., if you don’t get clear on what you want, you will find yourself in a constant cycle of getting things that kinda, sorta, almost, but not quite meets it.So how do you start getting clear on what you want? Take out a piece of paper and write the answer to these questions:What makes me happy? Make a list of the things that make you happy.W

    Apr 17,2023 07:53
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    16. Don’t Let Other People’s Frustration Become Your Frustration

    If you find yourself taking on other people’s frustrations, first ask yourself, “Why am I frustrated by this”? Is this person known to overreact? In the past, when their frustrations became my frustrations, was their validity to the frustration (meaning was there a valid reason for you to be frustrated)?It’s important to set emotional boundaries: stop taking on other people’s feelings. This can be a challenge for those of us who are an empath. In addition to setting emotional boundaries, ask you

    Mar 12,2023 06:34
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    17. Tell Yourself the Truth First

    In Cortney S. Warren’s book, Lies We Tell Ourselves: The Psychology of Self-Deception, she says, ““Self-deception comes from not having enough psychological strength to admit the truth and deal with the consequences that will follow when the truth is acknowledged.” She also says, “The more we lie to ourselves about how we are contributing to our problems, the more harm we will cause to ourselves and our relationships because we will blame others for undesirable aspects of our lives instead of ta

    Feb 26,2023 05:28
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    18. Just Leave it Alone

    To leave alone means to refrain from annoying or interfering withFocus on what you can control.Embrace a growth mindset. To embrace a growth mindset, think of the word “yet” It hasn’t happened yet. You aren’t there yet. The power of Yet.  Journal to release all the things that are consuming your mind.Celebrate small wins.Lay aside your expectations.Leave it alone! Trust the process

    Feb 22,2023 06:35
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    19. Quotes Inspire Me

    The quotes that inspired today's podcast: When you show them you’ll stay through anything, that’s when they’ll put you through everything.Intentionally leaving out details is lying too.Even if our background and circumstances influence who we are, we are still responsible for who we become.You can’t disappoint someone multiple times and expect their energy to still crave you.The wrong person will distract you and the right person will motivate you.When you avoid difficult conversations, you trad

    Feb 05,2023 09:09
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    20. Bystander shrapnel

    Jan 29,2023 10:53
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    21. Finding the Joy within

    Jan 22,2023 09:14
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    22. Life is too short to spend another day at war with yourself

    Decide that you are no longer willing to be at war with yourself. Awareness. Becoming aware of your negative self-talk Let Go of How Your Life “Looks” and Dedicate Yourself to Focusing on How Your Life “Feels.” Stop Comparing Yourself to Others. Speak to yourself as you would a close friend. Focus on your strengths. Instead of focusing on what you don’t like about yourself, focus on the things that you do like about you. FBe intentional with how you spend your time.  Be consistent. It’s so easy

    Nov 21,2022 09:38
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    23. I may be slow, but I’m coming

    Sep 15,2022 08:27
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    24. Zag When Zigging Isn’t Working

    Aug 02,2022 10:29
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    25. I Need You To Confront You

    Jul 23,2022 08:21
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    26. Don’t Be Lot’s Wife

    Jun 23,2022 08:02
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    27. Embrace the Ease

    Jun 01,2022 09:41
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    28. Even When You’re Hungry, Never Move Like You’re Starving

    May 29,2022 09:06
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    29. Knowledge is Powerless Without Action

    Apr 19,2022 10:20
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    30. Can I talk about more than one subject?

    Apr 02,2022 31:38
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    31. Our Scars and Challenges Are Real Serious (OSCARS)

    Mar 28,2022 05:09
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    32. Go Back and Get It

    Mar 27,2022 05:49
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    33. Some People Prefer Safe Slavery over Difficult Freedom

    Feb 21,2022 07:44
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    34. You Gotta Decide if You’re Spending More Money on the Repairs than the Car’s Worth

    Feb 06,2022 08:30
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    35. Sometimes You Gotta Go Blindly

    Jan 29,2022 09:00
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    36. Convenience is Hurting You

    Jan 09,2022 06:30
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    37. The Close-Out

    Dec 30,2021 23:23
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    38. Healthy Love

    Dec 18,2021 11:40
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    39. Why Do We Struggle with Conflict Resolution

    Dec 16,2021 10:48
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    40. Having Self-discipline is important for our growth

    Dec 05,2021 12:01
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    41. The Dread of Obligation

    Nov 28,2021 13:48
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    42. Compatibility vs Suitability

    Nov 21,2021 11:02
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    43. Sometimes You Need to Sit with It

    True healing requires true feeling. Here are a  few tips to help you sit with your pain:First, you must acknowledge itIdentify your feelings tied to itDon’t judge those feelings – silence your inner criticAsk yourself, what are these feelings telling me?Write it down - Writing your feelings down will help you better understand your feelings as well as confront those emotionLet it go. Once you’ve allowed yourself to feel and understand your emotions, give yourself permission to let them go.And if

    Nov 14,2021 10:41
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    44. Make Peace Your Priority

    Ten ways to make peace a priorityList three unrealistic expectations and let one of them go.Write down your top 3 greatest blessings in life.Give yourself permission to do nothing for a while.Place your hand over your heart and feel it beat. Be glad to be alive.Be grateful that you don’t always get what you want.Resolve to stop fixing other people.Decide to say no.Give yourself the freedom to admit when you’re wrong.Choose to live within your means.Focus on the present

    Nov 07,2021 11:42
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    45. I'm Betting on Myself

    “Prioritize your life, or someone else will.” -Greg McKeownAre you betting on yourself or against yourself?Every day we make decisions, and each decision, whether big or small, is forcing us to bet either on ourselves or against ourselves.Betting on yourself makes you see opportunities everywhereBetting on Yourself = Choosing YourselfBetting on Yourself = Believing in YourselfBetting on Yourself = Choosing What's Valuable to YouBetting on Yourself = Creating the Life You WantNever be afraid of b

    Apr 04,2021 09:51
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    46. Give Yourself Grace

    In the last year, I’ve been really focusing on self-care and self-love, and when I think about self-care and self-love, grace comes to mind.  We ask God for grace, we ask others to give us grace, but how often do we really give ourselves grace? Don’t you think it’s crazy that we are more apt to give grace to others than we are to ourselves. When you are having a very human experience, give yourself grace. I once read something that said, One of the best ways to bring more wellness into your life

    Mar 27,2021 08:51
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    47. Be Fluid, Don't Float

    Mar 07,2021 09:20
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    48. Your history becomes your portrait

    Feb 24,2021 11:09
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    49. You can't be both the arsonist and the firefighter

    I was watching something on TV and the guy said, “You can’t be both the arsonist and the firefighter.” I said to myself, oh that’s deep.  I began to ask myself, how do we try to take on that dual role in our lives. How many times have your actions, even if you had good intentions, set some things in motion that you regretted, you wished you hadn’t, in hindsight, there may have been a better way or different way to go about doing things. You have created a “mess” and now you are trying to find a

    Feb 15,2021 08:02
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    50. Is it calling your name

    Ways to figure out your calling:Notice dreams and signs.Notice what captivates you.Journal on what your calling is.Use your values as a guide.Think about what you used to love.Notice what feels good.Pay attention to what keeps coming back.  

    Feb 09,2021 11:56
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    51. Timing

    Everything in life is a matter of timing, whether we recognize it or not. If you take a moment to review your life, you would probably find that the difference between some of your biggest successes and your biggest failures  has probably been timing.

    Feb 07,2021 06:55
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    52. Identifying and Managing Emotional Triggers

    I recently saw a quote that said, “Be thankful for your triggers for they show you where you are not free.”  Have you noticed how certain topics evoke in you a variety of emotions? On any given day, you probably experience a range of emotions —excitement, unease, frustration, joy, disappointment & these range of emotions are usually tied to a specific event.  An emotional trigger can be anything - memories, experiences, or events that sparks an intense emotional reaction, regardless of your curr

    Feb 01,2021 12:02
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    53. Are You Out of Alignment?

    Jan 26,2021 06:57
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    54. Being normal or realistic is holding you back

    Jan 01,2021 09:06
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    55. Good sex, Bad relationship

    Dec 29,2020 08:06
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    56. I'm going Skydiving

    Dec 25,2020 06:56
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    57. Stop the Manipulation

    Dec 22,2020 14:38
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    58. Stop Being Lukewarm

    Dec 09,2020 11:03
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    59. Things Men Do That Make Women Overanalyze

    Nov 29,2020 26:11
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    60. What's Your Trauma Age?

    Nov 27,2020 09:47
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    61. Stop Overanalyzing It to Death

    Nov 23,2020 27:28
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    62. The Waiting Room

    Nov 16,2020 07:35
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    63. Faith Over Fear

    Nov 08,2020 13:33
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    64. Autumn is a Mood

    Oct 25,2020 07:13
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    65. Don't Let the Desire for Revenge Control You

    Oct 18,2020 12:28
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    66. Stop Being Vague About What You Want

    A lot of people are vague about what they want – want out of life, their career, in their relationship with others, or for the future. Being vague means lacking clarity. The first step to getting what you want out of life is to decide exactly what you want.Where do you want to be in the future?What do you want to experience?Who do you want to be?What do you want to accomplish?What makes you happy?If you are vague about what you want, you will find yourself with a lot of things you don’t want.Som

    Oct 04,2020 12:18
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    67. Relational Liabilities

    Ways to know they are an asset:You Are All Around Better Off Now Than You Were Before You Met.Have you learned a lot as a result of the relationship?You are better off financiallyYou’re healthierYour energy is more positiveThey respect your boundariesThey pour into you – they don’t just take, they also giveHow do you know if a relationship is a liability?They are energy vampires – when you are in their presence, they suck the positive/good energy out of the environmentThere’s always drama with t

    May 03,2020 07:40
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    68. The Significance of the Insignificant

    Feb 17,2020 11:24
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    69. The Life-Changing 90 seconds

    Nov 23,2019 09:58
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    70. Your Relationship with Money: Is it healthy or unhealthy

    Ten signs you have an unhealthy relationship with money:You have a scarcity mindset – you constantly worry that there is never enough.Spending money pains you or makes you feel guilty.You spend money carelessly. You partake in frivolous spending.You have a lot of debt…credit card debt.You have money wounds – meaning that your issues with money started with your past – either in your childhood, early adulthood, or a traumatic event you experienced.Your aspirations – Your early experiences with mo

    Nov 09,2019 12:48
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    71. The Enemy Within

    Are you your own worst enemy? Ways to identify if you are YOUR saboteur:Repeat the same negative cycles over & overYou fail to appreciate the small thingsYou are your own worst criticYou over-analyzeYou doubt yourselfYou have outdated beliefsYou have unclear boundariesYou make excusesYou constantly relieve past mistakes or painful memoriesYou have the wrong tribeYou place unrealistic demands on yourself

    Oct 11,2019 09:58
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    72. I Don't Want to be Happy

    Find your joy and happiness will followTips to bring more joy into your life: Stop seeking perfection – stop trying to achieve it and stop expecting it from others.Be vulnerable – vulnerability increases your self-worth, it helps you build intimacy in your relationship & if you recall in last week’s podcast, I said real intimacy is not about the physical – In to me see – it’s allowing a person to see you and you seeing that other person – not just seeing with your eyes, but with your heart, with

    Oct 04,2019 10:19
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    73. Real Randomness

    Everyone wants to be seenIt's important to stay true to your valuesUse your fall/challenges for transformation#value #challenges #seen #truetoself #selflove #transformation #transform #values #lifepurpose #fulfilled #lifegoals #relationships #communication #transparency #open #respect #perspective #honesty #curiosity #faith #empowerment #acceptance #belonging #known #identity #purpose #plan #goals #potential

    Sep 25,2019 14:04
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    74. Half Love is not Healthy

    The only thing worse than loving someone who doesn't love you is loving someone who loves you, but doesn't know how to show you love. You stay and wait because you see potential, you see what’s inside, you see what could be once you shatter all the walls so they can let you in. But they won’t let you in because they don’t have room for you, they won’t let you in because that means they have to share the deepest parts of themselves and that’s not something they know how to do. When you love someo

    Aug 15,2019 08:04
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    75. That Gut Feeling, is it really intuition or fear

    Is it your intuition or your fears/anxiety?Anxiety Doesn't Let UpAnxiety Causes You To Worry About The Future Anxiety Causes Feelings Of Uncertainty Anxiety Interferes With Everyday Life" Intuition Can Be Tested & Verified Intuition Helps Center YouAnxiety Is A Reaction To A Perceived ThreatIntuition Is Accompanied By Feeling Relaxed Intuition Is About Focusing On The Present, Anxiety Is About Focusing On The Future Anxiety Is More Demanding Than Intuition

    Aug 03,2019 09:32
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    76. Your Mind Should be Like Teflon

    How do you stop your mind from being like Velcro and shift to being more like Teflon? It starts with you first understanding your thinking style. Are you a Black and white thinking means seeing everything in extremes? Do you do mental filtering - only see the negative parts of situations. Do you overgeneralize – meaning do you believe that the results of one situation predict the results of all future situations? Do you jump to conclusions - believe that you know what others are thinking? Do you

    Jul 17,2019 07:31
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    77. Emotions Don't Come with a Manual

    Ask yourself, AM I EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE? Here are some ways to tell: You want to breakup whenever you hit a rough patchYou don't want to talk about the futureYou don't involve your partner in your life. You have self-centered behavior. You avoid displays of affection. The closer someone tries to get to you, the more you feel distant. When your partner is direct about their feelings for you, it makes you feel unsure about everythingYou don't trust others because you don't trust yourself. You'r

    Jul 14,2019 12:55
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    78. Break the chains of generational toxicities

    Tips on breaking generational cycles/dysfunction/toxicitiesBecome aware of your family’s destructive patterns or behaviors. This is the first step in moving toward healthy behaviors. Take ownership of your own actions, attitudes, beliefs, and emotions. Evaluate your present relationships. Are they healthy? Practice. Awareness and understanding are your starting place. Now it’s time to put things into practice.Be patient with yourself and others. It's going to take time to adopt new behaviors and

    Jul 10,2019 08:08
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    79. You had to be that person to become this one

    Tips to help you on your “journey” to become who you are:Work on your negative traits.Identify your ideal self. Commit yourself to growth (Be Growth-oriented). Be Adaptable/Flexible/Versatile. Be Confident.Be Emotionally Generous. Be Empathetic. Be Optimistic/Positive.Have Faith. Be Grateful. Be Patient. Be Self-Loving.Be Self-Reflective. Be Forgiving.  The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be

    Jul 06,2019 07:43
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    80. Be a cans collector

    10 things to tell yourself instead of I can’t:I am doing my best every day. Even if when you first start telling yourself this, you aren’t really doing your best every day, the more you say this to yourself, the more your best will show up.The best is yet to come. Too often people spend way too much time on what didn’t work out & they believe that is an indication of what’s to come. Well, the best is what’s to come.The greatest mistake I will make is by living in fear that I will make one. Hones

    May 06,2019 10:20
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    81. The Wegmans Effect

    You’ve heard the expression, your energy introduces you before you even speak. What energy do you give off? How do people feel when they are around you? When people walk away from meeting with you or talking with you, do they feel like they had an “experience” – a good one?I want to share with you eight ways to make sure you are giving people an awesome experience when they encounter you:Connect with your inner positive vibes – meaning identifying your best qualities and project them to the worl

    Apr 27,2019 09:12
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    82. Tell-tale signs of a bad organizational culture that can be spotted during the job interview

    Some tell-tale signs of a bad organizational culture that can be spotted during the job interview Body Language: Is the interviewer constantly shifting in his/her chair? Is the interviewer  paying more attention to his/her phone than the interviewee? Is the interviewer avoiding eye contact? Is the interviewer  rifling through papers when the interviewee is talking?They put a lot of pressure on you to take the position. They are trying too hard to close the deal. The more the interviewee question

    Apr 19,2019 10:05
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    83. The Words "I Love You" aren't enough

    LOVE IS AN ACTION I once read a quote that says, "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” Do you make it a point to show your mate loving feelings through loving actions? Sadly, all too often the ones to whom many people give the fewest appreciative words and kindly actions are their loved ones.20 ways to show love as an actionShare your fears and vulnerabilities with your matePay attention to your mateBe emotionally and physically

    Apr 17,2019 06:18
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    84. Tips to help you be more consistent

    Eight Tips to Help You Be More ConsistentStart with a morning routine. It has been said that the way you start your morning sets the tone for your entire day. When I read articles that ask people the keys to their success, many of them say they have a morning ritual. The morning ritual may be meditation, reading the Bible, working out, eating a healthy breakfast, or doing all of those things.Set an alarm or a calendar reminder on your phone. Until something becomes habit for you, it’s not a bad

    Apr 04,2019 07:18
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    85. Train your mind to be stronger than your emotions

    Seven steps to develop greater emotional awareness and help you effectively manage your feelings.Don’t react right away. Reacting immediately to emotional triggers can be a big mistake. You’ll more likely say or do something you’ll later regret. Before refuting the trigger with your emotional argument, take a deep breath and stabilize the overwhelming impulse.Be Conscious of Your Thoughts. Thoughts are habitual and it can be quite difficult at first to consciously be aware of every thought that

    Mar 31,2019 09:32
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    86. Seeking perfection stifles progress

    Seeking perfection stifles your progress:It leads to self-criticism.When you fall short of a goal, the battle in your mind begins and you beat yourself up over it instead of looking at the goals you did reach, you are focused on the goals you didn’t or instead of focusing on the things you did right, you are focused on the things you fell short on.It prevents you from being open to new ideas. Have you ever noticed those people on your job who say, we do it this way because we’ve always done it t

    Mar 03,2019 08:41
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    87. Multipotentialites

    Multipotentialite: A multipotentialite is someone with many interests and creative pursuits. Multipotentialites have no one true calling the way specialists do.Multi-passionate/multipotentialite/multi-faceted are all interchangeable terms.It’s okay to be a multi-passionate person in a niche’ happy world. Many people say, focus on ONE thing and be the expert in that one thing. Yes, that’s great advice for some, but not for all – not for those of us who are multi-passionate.  Up until recently, I

    Feb 24,2019 09:51
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    88. A Plot Twist Can Happen At Any Time In Your Life

    A plot twist can happen at any time in your life.When you get a new cell phone, tablet, or computer, do you stick with the default settings or do you change the settings to your personal preferences? Most people change the settings. When you live a life by default, you are basically accepting what’s already been selected for you. We all know people who seem to experience the same set of challenges or obstacles over and over again, or who have the same or similar negative life events happen to th

    Feb 18,2019 06:34